| "Elephant Journal" & "Walk the Talk Show" are registered trademarks of Waylon H. Lewis, Enterprises. Please, dear, do not be shy to receive me, to err is human and to forgive is divine. I hope that I can handle it a lot more gracefully than you did. I love you, Panda. That is because the unending power of love itself is the only piece of life that is truly simple. Copyright 2012 2019 opnlttr.com. 7"I murdered a man in Laos on 6/19/2002 and have . You were there on my best days, too, standing beside me like the queen that you and I both know you are, and we always shine brightest together. OPEN LETTERS An Open Letter the Man Who Destroyed Me You are dead so it is not like you can read this. When I told you I valued sex and wanted to wait, you didn't hesitate with your acceptance and never pressured me. It may be obvious that dating after you have been married and divorced is just not the same as it was in the years B.C.E. I am here with the assurance that I will always love you today and forever No matter how long it takes to show you that I am never leaving your side. You are everything that I loathe. You know I love that too about you. I hated the fact that I was forced to feel so many uncomfortable feelings. UVNAmerica asks Chance The Rapper to help distribute life-saving, ultraviolet light therapy device to HIV patients globally. I am happy loving you, I am lucky having you in my life. The consent submitted will only be used for data processing originating from this website. . Terms of Use | Privacy Policy. I hated the fact that I had to sit in the discomfort of piecing together a new life for myself that did not involve you as the central focus to build everything around it. But I will be OK. I'll cuddle closer on cold days because you exert an inhuman amount of heat and I love being close to you. She is a free. We complete each other. With you, I found my missing piece Yes, I wanted to hate you, but hating you only poisoned us both, and in the end Id still be left with nothing. I dont want to lose you and Im ready to fight against myself so that it doesnt happen. You are all I ever wanted. 1. Come to me and find in my heart a peaceful abode because you deserve every love I possess in me. And that scares me more than you may know. I unfortunately still lack the self confidence to laugh at their comments, to look past the seductions aimed at you. When a friend, a best friend, dumps you, the space they leave in their wake is almost impossible to fill. I will never take any of these of granted I could never do it. Id like to think that I would. I can't wait to have you, but your mind is made up. Copyright 2012 2019 opnlttr.com. I will never give up on you no matter how hard it gets I'm not leaving your side. Every day you show me parts of myself I didn't even know existed. Sometimes they will do both, as you have decided to do. I miss your laugh, your smile, and the way you used to look at me. You were my partner-in-crime, my secret keeper, the one I stole the blankets from every night. I wonder what it feels like to know the hot tears on someones cheeks every night are because of you. Is it something you think about on your way to or from work, knowing that they have probably cried the entire way on their own travels? He kissed you with the same surreal brilliance that captivated you so deeply. As my best friend, you've become everything to me. It feels like, maybe were meant to be in the same story. You're my muse, my therapist, my keeper, and, for the first time in a while, I have no fear of losing you. Love Stories : Real texts and stories about true love and relationships, I dont want to lose you : An emotional letter to your boyfriend. I want you to greet your mom for me, though I have called her some few minutes ago, she prayed for me and told me to forgive you. Actually I don't expect you to tell me anything about your past, but what I do want to happen is I want you to come to me when you need help. The moment you start having fans is the moment it gets dangerous. Do you have more I dont want to lose you love letters to share with us? Your email address will not be published. But what I want you to know most is that I still love myself, and I still know what love really is. Your love is something I would love to experience in a lifetime Read full bio, The Tibetan meaning of Eat my Tongue. {Dalai Lama}. I hope I can be selfless enough to try and curb their pain as much as I can; I hope I dont abide by the all-too-easy idea that its not my problem. If you need to flag this entry as abusive. There's too much to say. Infidelity is bad, infidelity breaks relationship too fast and so, you need to understand that I will never betray your trust in me. That it is okay to be frustrated with everything going on in your life at the moment, would you believe me? Let me express the hope and loyalty that is instilled inside of a girl who built up wall after wall only to feel as though they were peacefully torn down by a man who pulled her deeply into his love. I will be OK because the love inside of me is strong and true. The love of my life. I didn't see it then though. I chose to study all the places within me where I could uphold my boundaries more firmly, get a little more honest with myself, and forgive myself for ignoring the red flags and that still small voice within me who knew something about this just didnt fit. I am at my best and I do believe I am only getting better. I wish I could sum up how you make me feel right now. I love you, Panda. I guess thats why Ive never done what you have done, because Im not sure I could live with myself. The truth is, sometimes I am. For more information or to contact her, visit www.ariannajeret.com and tune into her podcast, The Greater Dater. You gave me the courage to lose myself in something I truly wanted. I am yours all the time because your enemies have lost to you. I love your kisses and your hands touching my body, in the most innocent of ways. And clearly you appreciate mindfulness with a sense of humor and integrity! How to make yours fierce and toned >>, The Disadvantages of using Tarot Cards, Crystals & Manifestation. Youre still the epitome of everything I hope to never be. What's your Love and Life story? Please learn about it. I loved you through changing circumstance and the rapid movement of time. I was coming to see myself on my own but you made it more special and more valuable, showing me I deserved love, to never give up hope on myself or the world. Create a Free Account & Get 2 Free Reads. Desperation. Four years ago, I couldn't imagine ever meeting someone like you. Contributors control their own work and posted freely to our site. A Buddhist Approach to Getting over an Ex. This pain is nearly unbearable, but in the end I hope I remember these days so that I know how imperative it is I dont curse someone else with something similar. They have, and they will again. Your free account lets you heart articles, follow authors, comment, Boost, and support Elephant's writers. You gave me the courage to lose myself in something I truly wanted. The brain behind Deedeesblog, Detola is an embodiment of creativity - With deep knowledge in Counseling and Photography, He started this platform to share happiness via digital contents in Relationships and Documentaries. The one who will not only reflect back all of the amazing qualities I possess, but also be working toward the growth and healing of our connection instead of its demise. When we fight, I remember our fits of laughter, your loving gaze answering to mine. You were there when I failed. "Without a doubt, the most engaging written piece on mindfulness! We're excited to hear from you! I dont need you to take care of me, provide for me, fight my battles for meany of that. I am really sorry for the pain you might have passed through while I was mad at you. I love more than I used to love you now. However, I do hope that youre forever faded into obscurity on the outskirts of my life, out of my vision and out of my mind. ), An Open Letter to the Guy Who Helped Me Move On, On the 3rd date she told me she has KIDS! with Allana Pratt. I hated you for not seeing what was standing right in front of you all this time. I know you have it too, deep inside of you, and my love allows me to genuinely hope that you will understand it one day. We will always remain as one, today, tomorrow and forever. Thank you for never choosing me or making me a priority in your life. It is faith, when we lose it in humanity. Let me be sweet to you and have fun with you. Thank you for the unanswered messages. If you don't have a preprinted envelope, on the first line put your name, your company's name, street address, and zip code in the upper left corner. I could let you go easier and slam the door shut behind you as you left. An Open Letter to Best friends: Going through hard times, To my Aquarius portuguese ex bsf with a Melanie Martinez obsession, To My Ex-Husband's New Girlfriend: I'm Sorry, My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding Ruined My Life: An Open Letter to Channel 4, An Open Letter To The Man Who Made Me His Mistress, Virginia Woolf's Suicide letter to Leonard Woolf, An Open Letter from Keynes To President Roosevelt, Einstein's Letter to President Roosevelt - 1939, Finished with the War: A Soldiers Declaration, An Open Letter To Anyone Who Cares - A Reflection on 2018. I get that women seem irrational and slightly off-kilter and you are probably watching me somewhat closely at first to make sure I am not a fruitcake. I hope you realize that I miss you every day, and that I would do anything in the world to undo the mistakes I made. If I still got to run off to a happily ever after, would I really care about the collateral damage I left behind? God has given me a beautiful gift, and the gift is you. I told her that my beloved husband didnt offend me. To the guy who keeps his heart hidden, I see you. I will forever remain grateful for the day you came into my life On my worst days, you've sat right by my side and, sometimes without even saying a word, have kept me together when it seemed to me that the world was falling apart. Does it matter at all that youve shattered someone? Connect with Detola on admin@deedeesblog.com. Thank you for leaving. I don't cry myself to sleep any more, my tears don't get me anywhere, no one can hear. Were so corny, right? And you answered : Ive never been more happy in my life.. Youre a terrible, mean, and selfish person and I wish you nothing good in this world. You're my person, and I wouldn't last a day from this point on without you. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. There are no simple letters written about simple heartbreaks. We're told all the time how much a breakup hurts, but I'd wager that being friend-dumped is worse by far. I wouldnt want to see you frustrated for all the treasures in the world! I suppose if I had won, then I dont know if Id think about the other person either. Time, give them time and a lot of it and don't ever give up on them. You taught me that it's okay to collapse, to be comfortable with silence, to cry at the drop of a hat, to bend but not break. You're my best friend, and I will always be yours. To me, its neither nostalgia nor melancholy. Why Didnt They Call for That Second Date? Hating you felt good. Im afraid of losing you. You have given me peace, love and hope It felt like the more I hated you, the more I could count all the ways in which you did not deserve me. No one can, not even you. I'll love you for as long as I breathe and even into death. This is a letter to you because you've been making me sad lately. As humans we are always on the go, here's a list of car essentials to keep on standby when the time strikes! Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. When I met you, I thought the worst of men and had lost hope because one man had hurt me so badly that no one wanted to pick up the pieces. An Open Letter To The Man I Fell In Love With, 10 Things You Need To Add To Your Summer Bucklist ASAP by Emily Templeton, 9 Things I Have On My Summer Bucket List That You Don't Want To Miss, How To Stay Happy In A Negative Atmosphere, How Your Music Taste Reflects Your Personality by Carlos Gonzalez. A book I aint scared to open or close. Every day we share together is another day I would love and appreciate. 2. When I told you I was broken, you pulled me close, held me, and whispered in my ear that I was beautiful. Now, I assume you should understand that I will never cheat on you, in fact, I heard that the DNA test carried out proved that all our kids are yours. I will do all I can so I dont lose you. You were there, you never left. I remember it all. The fact that its all working out for you makes me happy but scares me at the same time, because its no ordinary line of work. I am so lucky to have you and I will continue to appreciate you every day forever. I told you I would always be there for you and I mean it. I think it's time for me to start understanding that you are now just one of those people that is out of my reach. Congratulations to all the writers! Required fields are marked *. Im afraid that you might change, my love, Im afraid that you might not be the one I fell in love with anymore. We don't need or even want a "spiritual giant." We just want you. I will be there when you least expected so that in return, I will not have to lose you anymore. Founded in 2010, Thought Catalog is owned and operated by The Thought & Expression Company, Inc. For over a decade, we've been at the bleeding edge of media, pioneering an infrastructure for creatives to flourish both artistically and financially. You love my flaws and my quirkiness, telling me to never change: that you love me as I am. Sometimes I will apologize even when I was justified, and I need to trust you not to take advantage of that. Thank you for showing me all of the ways in which I was enmeshed in my own narcissistic tendencies and attachment wounds. It takes 7 seconds to join. Broken Hearts An open letter to the Man who stole my innocence An open letter to the MAN who took MY innocents, I have spent years trying to build up enough courage to address what You put me through. All Rights Reserved. Im sincerely sorry if I have been a difficult person all year round, but I promise to be better from now henceforth. I decided I would take all that courage and strength it took to love you and love myself better. There is only one simple concept, and that is that love is the most powerful entity in the world. This is a feeling that I wouldnt wish on anyone, and now I know what a person has to do to inflict someone with this soul-consuming anguish. But what I want you to know most is that I still love myself, and I still know what love really is. When I craved validation, you reminded me that I'm not worthless. No one can ever compare with how much impact you have made in my life. We're protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. When I met you, I didn't recognize the girl I saw in the mirror but now I see myself clearly again. You and I are also different, but we are the same. We'll continue to spotlight top response articles every week on our homepage and in our Overheard on Odyssey newsletter. I cried, I threw my temper tantrum, and I did hate you. Our trusty pelvic floor is known to be the energetic center of pleasure, sexuality, and joy. We fit together, like puzzle pieces. I hated that I did not love myself more fully. An Open Letter to the Man Who Broke My Heart I think a part of me still loves you while I sit here in the darkness, face hot with tears and disillusionment. Copyright 2016-2022. Sometimes as friends we joke that we "hate ourselves," but it is only thata joke. Let me begin by saying I love you. I'm not the type to ever walk away, I give people my best every time and hope it's reciprocated. You are the choice that truly mattered. You are my happiness, please, if I lost you to death how do you want me to cope in life? I wouldnt have done so to you because there is no reason to do so. Not really. I will be yours all the days of my life. When I say that youve left me alone, I mean that you have left me completely and utterly alone in this. Being mean is never OK, and I apologize in advance and will apologize again when it happens. You made me feel beautiful. People in this world are going to hurt me. Your family, your friends, and most of all you are so perfect for me. You have broken my heart, but you have not broken my love. I even loved you when you decided that you didn't love me anymore. Keep up with Arrah on Instagram, Twitter and behance.net. I know youre not a movie star but its all the same to me. I love you step by step. I can never fully express my gratitude. Even years and years after the fact, when you haven't spoken to your ex-friend in forever and the last text messages exchanged are gone, when you've deleted the cute, inside joke-inspired emojis from their contact name, and when the only exchanges you make with them are sporadic likes on Instagram selfies, you'll see them on Snapchat, see their face in your oldest photos, and the emptiness they left you with will rear it's horrible head. Am I ready to endure the doubts and anguish I had managed to set aside for a year? Citizen TV | 27K views, 1.2K likes, 22 loves, 303 comments, 15 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Citizen TV Kenya: Watch | #CitizenWeekend w/ Victoria. I don't want to lose you : An emotional letter to your boyfriend My Love, I'm afraid of losing you. Learn how your comment data is processed. Hatred. When I need constant love and attention you give it to me, without complaint. He isn't the same man, but to him you cry the same words. Allow yourself to rest. Please baby, standup and come back home to play the role of the good husband you used to be. Dads, husbands, YOU are the "safe place." You are our protector and provider. Subject: An Open Letter To The One I Don't Want To Lose From: Me Date: 10 Sep 2016 Dear You, We both know that neither of us have had the best of luck in the way of "best" friendship.Both of us have gotten left behind, and so we both know how bad that feels. You are the unusual risk. You made a girl, who was told she could never dance again, dance. It is a love that I was taught when I was a little girl. You make me happy every single day we are together. So, I will probably allow a few more tears to fall down tonight in your honor. All Rights Reserved. Perhaps, though, you should refocus your line of thought and simply be glad my anger is not hatred and vengeance. Plus, you'll be compensated by HQ at $10/response for your first 10 articles. Eventually, you'll fall in love again and it'll be easier to forget all of the reasons you were hurting so badly before. She is passionate about sharing lessons learned from divorce to help others build more fulfilling lives grounded in strength and optimism. ). Let me cry freely and break down in your arms when I need to, trusting me enough to know that I am a bad-ass bitch and I've got this. Roopa Swaminathan. To round everything up, please, always understand that I truly love you with all my heart and will never want anything to separate you and me. I want to cheer you up with true love, so, dont doubt me anymore if you can. An example of data being processed may be a unique identifier stored in a cookie. They are just words, words that mean different things to different people. My eyes were wide open when we fell in love, it won't be easy but I'm willing to fight for us, no matter what or who tries to get in our way. But what could I do? Just like with any letter, you could begin with an introduction. [CDATA[ You give me the best comfort. You have made me a better person by just showering me with love and affection. To the guy whos searching for answers, know that the answers are all you. You hear me even when I do not speak. If I am truly being honest here, the only person I really hated was myself. You have shattered my heart, but you have not shattered my love. I have your smile etched in my mind, everyday, every hour. You taught me that its okay to collapse, to be comfortable with silence, to cry at the drop of a hat, to bend but not break. Do you feel good? It took courage to stand in the face of your indifference with an open heart and an all-in attitude. No matter how hard your life gets I will always be here. We're dedicated to sharing "the mindful life" beyond the core or choir, to all those who don't yet know they give a care. So I have forgiven every trespass and pardon all the pains I went through because it is a challenge and I have accepted it already. With you in my life, a bright future is certain I dont want to lose you love letters Do you know that these I dont want to lose you love letters could also be reasonable as how much you mean to me text messages, Idont wanna lose you quotes and sayings, scared of losing you love letters, Inever want to lose you poems, scared of losing you love poem, Inever want to lose you poems for him, scared of losing someone you love quotes, short love letters for her from the heart? And thats the case with your new activities, but am I ready to trade my joy of living for yours? We both know that neither of us have had the best of luck in the way of "best" friendship.Both of us have gotten left behind, and so we both know how bad that feels. Sadness. The truth is that I dont want to lose you to anyone at all. Honestly, I would prefer we each do them for each other. Every time you read, share, comment or heart you help an article improve its Ratingwhich helps Readers see important issues & writers win $$$ from Elephant. You see, I cant be you. But Im not most people, and I suppose most people dont really worry about the disposable paws in their life who they traded in for something better. Elephant offers 2 articles/week for free. I have written and re-written so many thoughts on you. I finally knew what peace was: to be calm in my heart even when circumstances turned life upside down. I know you have your regrets too. Do you pray for them as vehemently as they pray for some otherworldly being to somehow take their pain away? When I met you, you drove me crazy. My reaction can seem so childish and annoying. It is for this reason I want you to forget about what people are saying about me and focus more on marriage. Hating you meant I would still be hating myselfand I knew I deserved better. 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